WHEN I TOLD A FRIEND THAT I HADN'T SEEN FOR A FEW YEARS THAT I WAS NOW WORKING ON HELPING PEOPLE TO CREATE EMPOWERED RELATIONSHIPS HE COULDN'T HELP IT BUT TO LAUGH AND SAY "DON'T YOU HAVE TO BE GOOD AT RELATIONSHIPS TO HELP OTHERS"
AND I GUESS HE HAD A POINT AS ALL THE YEARS HE KNEW ME I WAS IN AND OUT OF VERY UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.
Unfortunately we don't come into this world with a -relationship manual- and my parents didn't model a healthy relationship for me so my starting point was below ZERO.
Because I had no idea on how to be in a relationship that allowed me to be myself I took all my sorrows and transformed them into a way of gaining awareness on how to be in an empowered relationship and creating my own manual. And, I did it! Today I'm in a healthy marriage of 11 years and we have 3 wonderful children. If I did it so can you!
Today I don't believe that you can be in the "wrong" relationship, let me explain, I believe that whoever we attract into our life is a reflection of an aspect of ourselves. There are two types of attraction going on at the same time:
My work is devoted to healing that unconscious attraction, the parts of ourselves that we don't love yet. I believe that being in a conscious relationship gives us great opportunities to learn to love ourselves more and go deeper within the beautiful-magnificent people that we are.