WHEN I TOLD A FRIEND THAT I HADN'T SEEN FOR A FEW YEARS THAT I WAS NOW WORKING ON HELPING PEOPLE TO CREATE EMPOWERED RELATIONSHIPS HE COULDN'T HELP IT BUT TO LAUGH AND SAY "
DON'T YOU HAVE TO BE GOOD AT RELATIONSHIPS TO HELP OTHERS
" AND I GUESS HE HAD A POINT AS ALL THE YEARS HE KNEW ME I WAS IN AND OUT OF VERY UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS.
Unfortunately we don't come into this world with a -relationship manual- and my parents didn't model a healthy relationship for me so my starting point was below ZERO.
Because I had no idea on how to be in a relationship that allowed me to be myself I took all my sorrows and transformed them into a way of gaining awareness on how to be in an empowered relationship and creating my own manual. And, I did it! Today I'm in a healthy marriage of 11 years and we have 3 wonderful children. If I did it so can you!
Today I don't believe that you can be in the "wrong" relationship, let me explain, I believe that whoever we attract into our life is a reflection of an aspect of ourselves. There are two types of attraction going on at the same time:
My work is devoted to healing that unconscious attraction, the parts of ourselves that we don't love yet. I believe that being in a conscious relationship gives us great opportunities to learn to love ourselves more and go deeper within the beautiful-magnificent people that we are.